Choosing the Perfect Sex Toys and Sexy Lingerie for Your Fantasy Life Role Playing

Your sexual fantasies are in your head, and many of us never get to experience them in our real lives…unless we take charge and make it happen.

Often, that means finding a partner (or partners) you can trust, some great sexy lingerie, and some high-quality sex toys. After all, there is nothing so un-fantastical as malfunctioning or broken sex toys, or some cheap sexy lingerie that makes you break out in a rash or which wears awkwardly. So, you must find a premium supplier of the toys and props necessary if you want to be fully engaged in your fantasy and your thoughts. Also, to enjoy the experience, role playing may be an important part of making your fantasies a reality.

It All Starts in Your Head Ask sex experts about role playing and fantasies, and most would say this:

“Any kind of sex-related or kinky role play starts from one place - your imagination. All that playing dress up or pretending to be a superhero you did as a kid was the innocent version of what you can do now. Get elaborate or keep it simple - it's all about doing what turns you on.”

The key to that statement, though, is in the first sentence – your imagination. So, before investing in premium sex toys and sexy lingerie, take some time to figure out the roles you want to take on, such as being a dominant character who uses sex toys or a submissive character who wears sexy lingerie to titillate a partner.

Start with a single question: What turns me on? Or, if you are discussing it with a partner, What turns us on? Whether you are both interested in a storyline (i.e. the delivery person or repair person narrative), a character (superhero, vampire, schoolgirl, and so on), take the time to figure it out. This will help you make the most of your investments in premium sex toys and sexy lingerie. Maybe your fantasies are about going out into the world and pretending to meet your partner for the first time somewhere? That too can be helped with the use of sexy lingerie, which the two of you know is being worn by at least one of you. There are also remote control sex toys for such times, and they can let you taunt and tease a lover without anyone knowing about it.

Role-Playing to Boost Appeal of Sexy Lingerie and Sex Toys

Not sure how to even begin with role-playing or making fantasies a reality? Start small. We suggest a few experiments with “sexting,” that let your partner know just what’s in your head. You can send messages that describe what you want to do with the different sex toys purchased or even let them know you are wearing the sexy lingerie that’s been purchased. This is often a great way to get things heated up and rolling along with role-playing.

Do you have to “dress up,” such as wearing that maid’s costume? Only if it is what you are eager to do with one another. It might be that you both fantasize about fetish dressing, and that could be a part of your role-playing fun.

The point is to talk about costumes, sex toys and sexy lingerie with your partner. Getting into one another’s thoughts and fantasies is the ultimate in seduction and arousal, and it is sure to build your relationship to an entirely different level of intimacy.

Making Plans for Roles, Sex Toys and Sexy Lingerie If you ask those with a lot of experience in role-playing their fantasies, they say it is best to have “general ‘game plan’ before you start can make the difference between a fantastic experience and a mediocre one.” That does not mean you have to plot out every touch or word spoken. As we already noted, having some sex toys and sexy lingerie ready is a good decision, but also figure out the roles you will each play and how the scenario will pan out. For example, if you decide to play the boss/admin scenario, decide how that will work. Will the boss try to talk to the admin, but the admin will continue to drop sexy responses, give bedroom eyes, and strike alluring poses?

As those experts say, a “general game plan helps you both stay on track with a sexy and realistic scenario, one that you both consented to and were aroused by beforehand,” and if the sex toys and sexy lingerie are to enter the equation, discuss that too. And while discussing consent and agreement, it is a good idea to choose a safe word.

There are a lot of clichés and jokes about this, but in the heat of the moment, it can be easy to overlook traditional signs of distress that a lover might display. The “Wait, stop!” may seem like part of the role-playing. So, figure out a distinct phrase that can be used as a safe word. Make it unrelated to your fantasies to be certain that you are both clear about it.

Don’t Count on Mind Reading Where Sex Toys, Sexy Lingerie, and Role-Playing Are Concerned

A great outcome for couples that invest in good sex toys and sexy lingerie is that it is likely you will have discussed your preferences and wishes long before heading into the bedroom or enjoying your time role-playing. For instance, if one of you has spoken about a bit of anal play and you have discussed it together, it may also be facilitated by some sex toys designed for that purpose. If there is a bit of BDSM in your plans, you can take time to find sexy lingerie and other costumes that will work with such fantasies.

A smart “first step” is to sit down together and discuss your sexual fantasies (as we already noted), and if one or both are uncomfortable at the thought of revealing these things, then invest in a small notebook and leave messages for one another, or use sexting to get things started. When it is clear what direction(s) your fantasies and role play will be going, think about the sexy lingerie and sex toys that will help bring them into the real world.

If you are still a bit unsure about role playing, sex toys, fantasies and even sexy lingerie, we have done a bit of the work for you and found out about the top fantasies that can be used for role-playing, using sex toys, and more.

Good Cop – Really Good (or Really Naughty) Cop – Sex toys and sexy lingerie are in great abundance around this one, and whether it is some handcuff bondage, BDSM or full-blown costumes, it is a popular storyline

Teacher – Student – Whether it is the naughty schoolgirl in sexy lingerie or the naughty schoolboy who brings sex toys to the “classroom,” this dominant/subordinate fantasy is a popular one for role-playing

Boss – Admin - Another dominant/subordinate that is ideal for sexy lingerie and sex toys, it can be taken out of the bedroom and into the real world easily

Naughty Housekeeper – Whether it is a French Maid or a modern male butler, they can use sex toys and don sexy lingerie to handle all kinds of “chores”

There are also many fantasy scenarios, sex toys, costumes, and sexy lingerie related to the “delivery” person, repair person, and doctor/nurse story. The good news is that you are limited only by your imagination and can use all kinds of sex toys and sexy lingerie to make them even more robust and exciting. Visit The Love Zone, Washington state’s #1 adult entertainment store for Sex Games, Adult Sex Toys, Sexy Lingerie & Adult Videos